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The Ten Natural Hair Commandments

8 May

Found at Clutch 

For those of us who have made, are in the process of making, or contemplating the great Exodus from chemical hair straighteners…

I – Thou shalt be thankful for the hair that adorns thy head. Your hair is your ‘crown of glory’ treat it as such.

II – Thou shalt not idolize the hair that adorns another’s head. The hair on your head is unique, it’s what makes you you.

III – Thou shalt not take the hair that adorns thy head in vain. Be aware of the damage that chemicals and heat can cause, some of the damage is irreversible.

IV – Remember to take the necessary time to pamper thy hair. Create a routine, set aside specific days for sealing your ends, massaging, trimming, washing, conditioning and styling your hair. A healthy head of hair will be your reward.

V – Honor thy mother, father and ancestors for the beautiful traits that they have bestowed upon thee, one of which is your natural crown of glory. Wear your natural hair with pride.

VI – Thou shalt not attempt to use a fine-tooth comb to detangle thy hair. Even before using a wide-tooth comb, use your fingers to detangle, and when detangling always start from the ends and work your way up towards your scalp.

VII – Thou shalt not be ashamed to wear your natural hair in public. Wigs, weaves, braid extensions etc. are all wonderful temporary ‘protective’ and ‘transition’ styles, but they don’t compare to the beauty of your natural hair.

VIII – Thou shalt not kill the hair follicles on thy head – with high heat, harsh chemicals or tight styles. Stay away from pore clogging, dry scalp causing petroleum based products; use natural essential oil based ones instead. Be gentle with your hair, seek out professional stylists who have experience in styling your hair type.

IX – Thou shalt not bad mouth thy neighbor’s hair. Be respectful and encouraging to those who have not yet chosen to wear their hair natural. Negative comments will only turn them away from the natural hair community.

X – Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor’s hair; thou shalt not covet it’s texture, nor it’s curl pattern, nor it’s length etc. Appreciate the hair that you were blessed with. Try different styles and accessories that accentuate your very own personality and style.

Kinky’s Open Letter: To the S/O of the Natural Haired woman:

7 May

If you have been following me on twitter, you know about the release of the Natural Hair comic, Kinky & Carl E. Stranz. It hit the tumblr scene this weekend is already gained a good amount of followers from this weekend alone!

It follows Kinky, a woman from Natural Hair who is from the planet NuGraoth of the Shea Galaxy and her husband Carl. E.

It has an entire back story of how Kinky got to earth and what happened. Read the comic here!

(I would have posted it but you have to see  the words because its large) .

Kinky dedicated a letter to all the men of us transitioning and already natural haired women. Its so funny cuz its sooo true

LIKE Kinky & Carl E. On Facebook For New Updates!

Follow them on twitter!

Follow the actual comic on tumblr! 

“First and foremost: here’s my shoulder, lean on itcry on it!

No one knows your pain! No one understands your plight!

You were there as she debated The Big Chop. You were the one who she bounced her ideas back and forth on as she decided whether or not to give up the perm lifestyle. And when you said, “Well, I don’t think you should cut your hair off yet and look into this a lil’ more,” she nodded in agreement while walking ever so quietly into the bathroom. It was you who rushed to the bathroom door in a panic after hearing obscenities, expletives and profanities only to see your lady almost in tears with a nearly bald head.

When she went out in public and suffered ridicule and persecution for her pursuit of freedom, not only from societal norms, but also physical health risks, it was you who had to coach her back into confidence. When she went to work and heard the cackling of the perm posse with her boss putting his/her two sense on appropriate workplace dress, it was you who reestablished her belief in herself. And of course when her friends threw in the old “I could never do that to my hair” remarks, you had to revert back to your hood ways and say, “Eff-dem-[insert obscenity here].”

No, you didn’t always agree with her decision to cut her hair and Lord knows you cringed at many of her natural hairstyles, but when she wanted that new hair steamer or chi iron, you reached in those pockets and supported.

When she found a friend going natural, then a forum, then a blog, before you knew it all your “QT” was thrown out the window because she found the Natural Haired Promise Land, flowing with Shea and conditioners.

And when the day was long spent, after being ripped a new one because of what she dealt with earlier that day. When you were tired and ready to go to bed and get some rest, sleep wasn’t an option because she needed someone to talk to about Shea butter, conditioners, silicones, parabens, mineral oils, heat damage, bantu knots and the list goes on…. and on… and on!

But in the end, if there was such a thing, the benefits were all yours my friend, because her new found confidence gives you something to smile at and while most men have to get a court order to touch their woman’s hair, it’s your playground! Sweating out a style? You laugh at that! But that’s a topic for another conversation

So while you ladies go through your never ending journey, don’t forget about the significant other going through it with you!

May Kon Dishna be with you all!”

 

UH OH! I’ve Got Heat Damage!

2 May

Yes its true.

I won’t try to hide it,

I wont deny it,

Yes I do have heat damage.

After contemplating for some time if that’s actually what it was, I looked at some of my old pictures and some of my new. My wash N Go then and my wash N go now and I concluded that my experiment was effective.

I used the BabyLiss Nano Titanium Pro on my hair at 450 degrees. Now I know that hair burns at that level but being the risk taker that I am, I decided to go for the gut and the goal and see what would happen. Well now that I have, I can safely say that if you do decided to buy the babyliss flat iron, don’t set it that high. Lol . I have never had heat damage all over from a flat iron. The temperature and those titanium plates did it for me. I know what my hair can handle and what it can’t from now on.

Below are various pictures of my wash n go from the past 3 years

1st pic:2009

2nd Pic:2010

3rd Pic:2011

4th pic:2012

 

 

Now do you see what I mean?

 

Yea I know right! I’m not about to pull my hair out over it though lol.

I have been asked this question time and time again but you do not have to BC in order to recover from heat damage, you can but im not. I choose to grow it out and baby my hair. Now mind you, heat damage is not reversible. The protein in my hair has been weakened.

THE PLAN

  • Get rid of THAT particular flat iron (done)
  • Protective style way more i.e yarn braids, wet buns, sew-ins, mini twists, braids
  • Blow dry no more than twice a year ( if I even decide to do this)
  • Regimen will consist of 2x protein treaments a month, deep conditioner, 2x a month, moisturize and seal 3x a week, clarify once a week, oil rinse 2x a month , cowash once or twice a week
  • Cut down on parabens and silicons ( got a little carried away with it)

 

Did you notice I said absolutely nothing about trimming? Well that’s because I just did a little trim on my hair and since it will be put away 99% of the time, there is no need to go hacking away at the ends of my hair just cuz I “feel” like I need a trim.

Im excited though! I get to go on a new journey!

See look how much i love yall

I risk my own head so yall can no better so with that being said keep the ninja comments to a minimum

HHJ Ladies!

 

Strawberricurls Spotlight: Dominique-Alexis

17 Apr

How long have you been natural and when did you BC?
Hi I’m Bunny and I’ve been natural for ten years (my whole life!). My big sister helps me take care of my hair! My hair is changing textures, which means it’s getting coarser. This make it a little bit harder for me to learn how to take care of my curls, but I know I can do it!

What are your staple products and hairstyles?
My staple products are Darcys Botanical’s of course! Their daily leave in conditioner leaves my hair soft and smooth while their Madagascar Styling Cream leaves my cornrows super shiny!

Braided mohawks are my VERY favorite hairstyle in the world =)

What is your regimen?
I wash my hair six braids with Darcys shampoo and then deep condition while I’m in the shower for about ten minutes. I rinse right before I get out and my sister moisturizes and detangles my hair for me. After that she stretches in Ghana braids for styling or does braids/twists for a down and out style!

What are your natural hair goals?
I want my hair to be long enough for me to sit on!

How do you keep your hair intact overnight?
Silk pillow case and a hair scarf!

How do you maintain length?
Protective styles, finger detangling instead of combs, and lots of moisturizer!

Name 1 reason you went natural and why you love being natural.
I’ve always been natural, but I want to stay natural because I love to rock my BIG HAIR! Make you check out our website: Natural-hair-care-info.com!

XOXOXO

Find Your Perfect Deep Conditioner – The Ultimate Guide

16 Apr

Found at CurlyNikki.com 

Do you remember when you were a kid and you had your favorite shirt? I do. It was pink with purple flowers and it could actually glow in the dark-pretty much the coolest thing EVER to a kindergartner. I wore the darn thing every chance I got and I remember being heartbroken when I found it had a hole. I was sure my mother was going to make me throw it away but to my surprise, she patched it right up, good as new and I wore it until the seams were stretched and I just couldn’t fit it anymore.

So let’s pretend you love your hair just as much I loved my tee (okay you probably love it a bit more.) Well there are so many factors that damage our fragile tresses that it’s important that you patch up the holes regularly so you can keep it looking beautiful instead of cutting it off. Deep conditioning does exactly that. You will retain the most length by using a high-quality deep conditioning treatment at least once a month.

The most effective deep conditioning treatments contain:

• Hydrolyzed protein to make your hair less breakage prone
• Conditioners to make your hair easier to comb
• Sealing ingredients that help moisture stay inside your hair between washes

Hydrolyzed Protein

Look at a strand of your hair. 90% of what you’re looking at is keratin protein. Your body uses the protein you eat to create keratin protein for your hair and skin. Once a hair emerges from its follicle, your health and what you eat doesn’t affect its appearance anymore. Your hair’s at your mercy and daily combing and styling chip away tiny pieces of keratin from each strand. It’s up to you to replace those lost pieces with protein from hair products; otherwise your hair will break just as fast as it grows. Using hair products that contain hydrolyzed protein are one of the best ways to improve your length retention.

In cosmetic labs, scientists “hydrolyze” proteins from plants and animals to make them more compatible with your hair’s keratin. The term “hydrolyzed” means the protein has been made small enough to fit in the spaces between your hair’s cuticles and absorb into the cortex. When you read a product’s ingredient list, the ingredients that are used in the highest amounts are listed at the top and the ingredients used in the lowest amounts are at the bottom. Usually, you get the most benefit from an ingredient if it’s at the top of the list, but hydrolyzed protein is a little bit different. Cosmetic chemists often add “helper” ingredients to make low amounts of protein more effective, so don’t rule out a product just because hydrolyzed protein isn’t one of the first 5 ingredients.

Examples of hydrolyzed protein:

• Hydrolyzed Keratin (from wool)
• Hydrolyzed Oat Protein
• Hydrolyzed Silk Protein
• Hydrolyzed Soy Protein
• Hydrolyzed Wheat Protein

Conditioners

Deep conditioning treatments need to perform double duty. You can make your hair stronger, but it will still be vulnerable. Well-formulated treatments also condition your hair leaving it easier to comb so you don’t lose precious strands from trying to break through tangles. In the world of cosmetic chemistry, opposites attract. Our hair has a negative charge and responds well to conditioning ingredients that have a positive charge. The ingredients listed here are called “cationics” and they stay on your hair even after you do your final rinse.

Common conditioning ingredients in deep treatments:

• Amodimethicone
• Behentrimonium Chloride
• Behentrimonium Methosulfate
• Cetrimonium Chloride
• Stearamidopropyl Dimethylamine
• Stearalkonium Chloride

Sealing ingredients

You don’t want to spend the extra time and money to deep condition your hair if the results aren’t going to last. Even the best conditioning treatments are only semi-permanent, not permanent. A deep conditioner that contains good sealants will help your hair stay strong and moisturized for days at a time. Cosmetic scientists perform tests to see which ingredients do the best job at sealing porous hair like ours. You will get the most value out of your deep conditioning treatment if it contains at least 1 of these very effective sealants:

Ingredients for sealing:

• Petrolatum
• Mineral Oil
• Lanolin
• Dimethicone
• Phenyl Trimethicone
• Shea Butter
• Soybean Oil

Key Tips for Deep Conditioning

• Shampoo your hair before applying a deep conditioner. If you only co-wash or rinse before you apply the product, your hair won’t be able to absorb as much protein.

• Follow the instructions on your product. The best deep conditioning treatments contain a careful blend of ingredients that will give you maximum benefits in 3 to 15 minutes. Don’t put off deep conditioning because you feel like you don’t have time to sit under the dryer. That’s usually unnecessary and you’ll end up deep conditioning your hair less often.

• Only condition the hair you want to keep! Choose a deep conditioning treatment that you can afford to use generously. It won’t matter if your product is filled with great ingredients if you don’t apply it to every inch of your hair.

Have you found a deep conditioner match?

Reading the ingredients list will help you choose which product to buy, but only you can decide if a product is a home run. If you can answer yes to all 3 of these questions, you’ve found a staple.

1) Was the product easy to apply? There’s no reason that a deep conditioning treatment has to be very thick. It’s easier to control the amount you use if the product spreads easily.

2) Could you at least finger comb your hair after rinsing the treatment out? The most efficient products don’t require you to follow-up with a separate conditioner. If you can do your full detangling routine, you’ve really got a winner.

3) After your shower, detangle your most breakage prone (shortest) section with your fingers. Do you see significantly less broken hair than usual? If you’ve found the right product for your hair, breakage should drastically decrease after one use and continue to improve. You’ll have to keep using the product regularly to keep breakage at bay.

Recommended Deep Conditioning Treatments

Your deep conditioning treatment should be the most expensive product in your arsenal. You can keep your beauty budget in check by choosing less expensive shampoos and leave-ins.

BEST BU Y – ApHogee Two-Step Protein Treatment, $9 for 4 oz. (Step 1) and ApHogee Balancing Moisturizer, $6 for 8 oz. (Step 2)
Available at Sally Beauty

ApHogee Two-Step Protein Treatment has been around for years. This is an effective and affordable treatment but it has an unpleasant smell and the protein step can get messy. If you’re on a tight budget, it’s the definitely the best way to go. This product requires 5-10 minutes under a hooded dryer. Make sure to follow the instructions exactly as written or you could end up with unnecessary breakage.

Joico K-PAK RevitaLuxe Bio-Advanced Restorative Treatment, $23 for 5.1 oz.
Available at drugstores and beauty supply stores

This is Joico’s newest product for breakage prone hair. The “bio-advanced” part of the name refers to peptides (similar to proteins) that are used to help decrease inflammation on the scalp and promote hair growth. There is good scientific evidence for the effect of peptides on the skin, so this product is worth a try if you’ve had a history of scalp problems. The other ingredients in the product are similar to Joico K-Pak Deep Penetrating Reconstructor. Both are great choices for a staple deep conditioner.

Carol’s Daughter Monoi Repairing Hair Mask, $29 for 7 oz.
Available at Sephora and CarolsDaughter.com

This product contains all the requisite ingredients for a good deep conditioning treatment. If you enjoy sitting under the dryer as a time to sit back and relax, you’ll enjoy this product because maximum results require 10 to 15 minutes of heat.

Age Beautiful Strengthening Treatment, $10 for 5.1 oz.
Available at Sally Beauty

This treatment won the Good Housekeeping Research Institute’s highest award for deep conditioners. It’s best for color-treated and relaxed hair because it contains a special ingredient that helps repair cuticle damage from chemical treatments. Even if you don’t make it your staple, it’s a good product to keep around for immediately after touch-ups.

Today’s Giveaway: Amazing Botanicals

15 Apr

Day 8 Of 20 Days Of Giveaways! Today’s Giveaway………

Amazing Botanicals

 

 

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Note: Please be advised that all winners have a 48 hour window to claim their prize. If it is not claimed within those 48 hours, a new winner will be selected

Sponsored by Amazing Botanicals


Product Review:Miss Jessie’s Curly Butter Creme

14 Apr

[CLOSED]Today’s Giveaway: Jessicurl’s Confidence Collection!

12 Apr

Day 5 Of 20 Days Of Giveaways! Today’s Giveaway………

 Jessicurl’s Confidence Collection! 

 

Remember, all you have to do is subscribe to the Strawberricurls Youtube Channel to enter to win!

Note: Please be advised that all winners have a 48 hour window to claim their prize. If it is not claimed within those 48 hours, a new winner will be selected

Sponsored by JessiCurl

Mini Tutorial: Soft Beachy Waves

11 Apr

If you have been following me all this time, you know that i am just not a big fan of straight hair. I have nothing against those who wear it, it’s just not for me. I get bored with it so easily its ridiculous -___-

This is how my hair looked one i first flat ironed it

 

I just cannot be in a committed relationship with one hairstyle. So in my unfaithful fashion, I moisturized and sealed my hair and did some quick bantu knots on it to add some texture.

I left them in overnight and i didnt take me long at all to set it.

It took maybe 20 mins at the most. Why can’t my hair ever come out like this when its in its textured state -___-


 

And The Winner Of The The Twisted Sista Collection Is….

11 Apr

SuperCurlyGurl!
(Sorry i couldnt find your real name)
Congrats!

Note: Please be advised that all winners have a 48 hour window to claim their prize. If it is not claimed within those 48 hours, a new winner will be selected